Thursday, February 9, 2012

Temper: Controling it

When you are really mad or angry, what do you do? There is a lot of things that you can do when you are angry. You can throw something, you can say something with words, you can take deep breaths, you can curse, you can hurt the someone, you can-"Blah!Blah!" There are endless possibilities. But let's think about the best one. Doing something physically doesn't seem like a good idea. It's not going to make you feel any better. I think the best way is to use words. Words are a powerful thing. King Sejong the Great stated that his father and he are alike, but his father killed people with swords while he killed people with words. Anyway, even if you do use words, there are still many possibilities you can do with words. You can curse and say bad words,you can talk to the person you are mad at, or tell someone else and talk it out. I think the best way is to talk it out. Use words, not to hurt that person, but to tell that person why your mad, and how you feel. But you shouldn't start to randomly raise your voice and yelling. Yelling just makes you even more mad and frustrated. You lose your voice and both people are not happy. This is a "Lose" "Lose" situation. If you talk it out and get over it, the person will no what makes you mad and will stop it. Then it won't happen anymore. Now it's a "Win" "Win" situation!! So from now on, whenever you are mad, control your temper!!

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